Archive for November, 2009

Wedding Quotes

Monday, November 30th, 2009

To have printed on your programs, invitations, favors, or on your wedding website, a lovely quote about love or marriage can be a nice touch.  I’ve done a little research, and here are some of my favorites.

“He is husband, she is wife.  She fears not him, they fear not life.” -Robert Frost

“One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: that word is love.” -Sophocles

“There is no remedy for love, but to love more.” -Henry David Thoreau

Marriage–a book of which the first chapter is written in poetry and the remaining chapters written in prose.” -Beverly Nichols

“Two human loves makes one divine.” -Elizabeth Barrett Browning

“Grow old with me!  The best is yet to be.” -Robert Browning

“The sum which two married people owe to one another defies calculation.  It is an infinite debt, which can be discharged through all eternity.” -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

“One should believe in marriage as the immortality of the soul.” -Honore de Balzac

Happy Wedding Planning!

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A List for the Dazed & Confused Groom

Monday, November 30th, 2009

My husband has been urging me to do a blog about what it’s like to plan a wedding from the groom’s perspective.  Since, obviously, I’ve never planned a wedding as a groom, I had to pick his brain, which I’m sure made him regret ever suggesting it in the first place… But nevertheless!  Hopefully I can get a few ideas across to you guys that you can pass along to your grooms :)

1. Here is the first thing you can do to make your fiancee glad she said yes:  GIVE HER A GUEST LIST!  One with guests names, addresses, and even phone numbers.  “Uncle Joe and his wife, who live in Dallas” will not cut it.  The task of the guest list is usually the first stress-inducer for the bride (and there will be many!).  You can certainly help her out by preparing your  detailed list as thoroughly as possible and in a timely manner. 

2. Traditionally the groom plans and pays for the honeymoon.  The earlier you do this, the better.  Get a few location ideas together, and then run them across the bride.  Once you’ve chosen a destination, get to work.  Booking flights, hotels, and resorts in advance will ensure availability.  This is a conversation you do NOT want to have a month before the wedding:

Bride, with chin in hands, and hearts in her eyes: So what’re we doing for our honeymoon?!

Groom: I dunno, did you have any ideas?

Crazy-bride behavior will surely ensue.  Be prepared to watch your fiancee transform into the hulk with a veil.

3.  If the bride is paying for the wedding, the groom typically steps up for the rehearsal dinner.  While many grooms’ parents are relieved to embrace this task (rather than the wedding itself!), the groom himself may host the event if his parents are not.  Like most things wedding related, the pertinent information is at your fingertips: just google “how do I host a rehearsal dinner?” and poof! your research has begun.  Check out local restaurants for private party rooms and rates. 

4.  Be responsible for your groomsmen.  Make sure they understand your wedding is not a frat party.  To avoid any surprises, discuss boundaries (if any) for your bachelor party with your fiancee, and then relay them to the best man.  Ensure that they have been measured and purchased tuxes, and then prepare gifts for your dudes.  Popular gifts include any engraved items, such as harmonicas, swiss army knives, flasks.  NOTE: Urge them to NOT bring the harmonicas or flasks to the wedding.  Also, be sure to choose groomsman that need minimal managing in terms of behavior.  In other words, choose grown-ups.  A drunken, sloppy toast could cause severe embarassment and a fussy new wife.  The biggest responsibilities of a groomsmen include showing up ON TIME, clean shaven, in tux…and not smelling of alcohol. 

5.  The bride and groom usually give each other a gift.  Usually, but not always.  Find out if you guys are skipping this tradition.  You don’t want to discover this too late and have your first hurt feelings as man and wife…on your wedding day.  If you are sharing gifts, give yourself some time to choose something thoughtful and, ideally, romantic.  Again, don’t be shy with the google browser! 

6.  Support your fiancee.  Planning a wedding is extremely stressful.  There will be times that she’ll be angry at you for not doing something, when you didn’t realize you were supposed to be doing it.  Ask her what she needs help with.  If she responds with a few tasks, DO THEM!  If you don’t know how, ask!  Seriously.  Call me.  I work here Sunday-Thursday 936.441.6611.  Or, email me: heathersbb@aol.com

Did I forget anything?  Don’t be shy, comment below!

Relaxing on our honeymoon!

David & Morgan: October 24th, 2009

Tuesday, November 24th, 2009

On October 24th, 2009, Morgan Hopkins said “I do” to David Hart at Heather’s Glen.  The two were childhood friends, brought together by their families, who were close before they were born.  The story of their families’ connection is quite unique and fascinating.

Morgan’s father was a police officer for Harris County Sherrif’s Department, and his partner and best friend was Virgie Arthur.  Virgie is the groom’s grandmother.  Virgie mentioned one day to Officer Hopkins how her daughter was so poor that she couldn’t afford to get her hair cut.  He responded that his wife, Morgan’s mother, could cut her hair for free because she had her own salon.  Virgie told her daughter the offer and she of course took it.  That was the beginning of the close friendship between Morgan’s mother, Deborah, and Virgie’s daughter…Anna Nicole Smith.

“Yes, the one and only,” Morgan said.

Morgan’s mother and Anna became best of friends when she began cutting her hair.  Anna became like a second mother to Morgan.  Her son, Daniel, and her nephew, David, and Morgan spent a lot of time together at Anna’s home when she threw parties. “Tragedy struck in my family in 1996, when I was 7 years old,” Morgan explains.  “My dad passed away.  When he passed away, a lot of people in our families blamed each other, and our family ties were broken.”  The families went separate ways: Anna moved to California, and Morgan and her mother moved to Magnolia, Texas. While the passing of Morgan’s father seemed to drive the families apart, they were again drawn together at the untimely death of Anna.  In 2007, when she passed away, Morgan’s mother called her, crying hysterically with the news.  Morgan left her high school broadcasting class to be with her mother, and placed a phone call to her teacher explaining her sudden exit.  Her teacher was skeptical, because she had a student in her other class who was Anna’s nephew, and told Morgan so.  They put two and two together, and the two childhood friends were reunited; unbeknownst to them, they had been going to the same high school!  They spent the evening together watching home videos of themselves with their families. 

The two became inseparable.  They went to the Bahamas together to visit the grave sites of David’s aunt and cousin.   Together they bought their first home in January of 2009, and then celebrated their two year anniversary in Cabo San Lucas in June.  There on the beach, David got down on one knee, pulled out an engagement ring and asked Morgan to marry him.

Morgan was especially touched to find out that, in preparation for the engagement, David took Morgan’s mother to Morgan’s father’s grave to ask them both for permission for her hand in marriage.  “We have such a great history together, with our families, and he is the only friend I have who knew my dad, which means so much to me.” 

Morgan wore a lovely gown from Brickhouse Bridal, where she chose her cranberry, floor-length, strapless bridesmaids gown as well.  She carried roses and orchids wrapped in pearls, and her bridesmaids carried stargazer lillies and roses. 

Heather’s Glen was the second location the couple toured.  “We knew that we had to get married there because our dream home has always been a beautiful, white, colonial style mansion.  Always.  if I had to do it all over again, I would definitely still get married at Heather’s Glen.  Everyone who worked there was incredibly nice and the place was so beautiful, and everything went absolutely perfect!  It was hands down the best day of our lives.” 

Congratulations to Morgan and David!  May your married life together be an adventure full of love!

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After the Ceremony

After the Ceremony

Morgan and her bridesmaids

Morgan and her bridesmaids

David & his groomsmen
Photography by John Stone / johnstonephoto.net / 832.656.7440

Tiffany & Co. Bezet Rings

Monday, November 16th, 2009

I’m disappointed in myself for not writing about these sooner, but better late than never, right?

Has everyone SEEN these?  Tiffany & Co. Bezet Rings: modern by definition of their simplicity, I love it!  I’m typically not a pear-shaped diamond fan, but in the Tiffany Bezet I find it charming. 

Rather than being in a setting with posts, the setting contours the shape of the diamond in a bezel setting.  If you love a simple stunner (and platinum!) check these beauties out!

http://www.tiffany.com/Engagement/Item.aspx?GroupSKU=GRP10048#f+0/1006/0/0/0/1006

Not Everyone’s Engagement Makes Headlines!

Thursday, November 12th, 2009

Can you believe this?!

http://www.gnn.com/article/fiance-finds-ring-that-fell-from-hot-air/764898

Wow!!!

Open House Gratitude!

Thursday, November 12th, 2009

Thank you to everyone who attended our Open House, brides and vendors alike!  The weather was awful, so we really appreciate everyone who came out.  Check out the pictures below.

The Eclectic Frog coordinated a fabulous fashion show complete with bridal gowns and darling flower girl dresses.  Dave Dilauro Photography and Steve Tarver Photography both participated, displaying their talent and vision.  Kathy’s Cakes and Bakery & Cakes offered tasty samples, and Mary Eckhart, owner and innkeeper of our favorite B&B was there!  Artista Media was present, the excellent videographer (the one who did our video on the home page).  If you had attended, you would have met with the super-talented florists at Cheryl’s Flowers and The Blossom Shop.  (Raise your hand if you caught one of their bouquets after the fashion show!)  The menu for the evening consisted of Heather’s Glen brides’ favorites:  stuffed mushrooms, fruit and cheese display, sandwich display, swedish meatballs and rice, and a carving station with turkey, ham, and round of beef.  Mmmmm…
Thank you again to everyone who made it to our Open House.  And a very special thanks to Gail and Danny at the Perfect Wedding Guide for greeting and meeting with our beautiful brides!
Kathy of Kathy's Cakes

Kathy of Kathy's Cakes

Mary Eckhart, owner and innkeeper of The Caroline House

Mary Eckhart, owner and innkeeper of The Caroline House

Dave Dilauro's Photography Booth

Dave Dilauro's Photography Booth

Linens by Lisa

Linens by Lisa

Fashion Show, sponsored by The Eclectic Frog

Fashion Show, sponsored by The Eclectic Frog

Fruit Display

Fruit Display